Clarity and Decision Ritual

To cut through fog when a decision has been circling for weeks.

Any phase, though the waxing half supports action best.

MoonMagicx Lunar Method™ phase: Waxing Gibbous.

• A blue or white candle

• Fluorite, Sodalite or Clear Quartz

• Rosemary and peppermint

• Two sheets of paper

Write each option at the top of one sheet. Say both out loud so they exist outside your head.

Candle centre, one sheet either side, crystal in front of you.

Light the candle. Say: 'I am willing to know.'

1. Under each option, write what it costs, not only what it gives.

2. Under each, write what you are hoping someone will forbid.

3. Hold the crystal, close your eyes, and imagine choosing option one. Note the first physical sensation.

4. Repeat for option two. Note the sensation.

5. Write one sentence beginning 'What I actually know is…'

6. Put both sheets away until morning, then reread that sentence first.

'I stop asking for another sign.

The answer I keep receiving is the answer.

I am allowed to choose.'

Snuff the candle. Say: 'Known.'

Give yourself a decision deadline within seven days and tell one person what it is.

Undecidedness is often a decision that has not been admitted yet.

• What do I already know?

• What am I avoiding by staying undecided?

• What would I choose if no one would be disappointed?

Never leave candles unattended.